Can we dissolve thoughts?
How to deal with situation when some one can never think good about you, what ever you do? A pre-filled mindset, which can never think that you can do any challenging job. Someone is aware about all your defects & in spite of encouraging you, he/she
does some act which discourages you.
The point here is that, in a way it is good for you that someone is making you aware about your defects. He/she may not want you to improve at all. These are the challenges for you. Remember one thing, even you accomplish something, he/she will never take in the right spirits...saying, good for you. So, you don't have to do things thinking that you are doing to show someone that you can also do this. Its you...Its your life....can't be dictated by someone else. You do, what you like but do not hurt anyone from your acts. There is no point in telling someone that..look..you are doing good but in a way you may be causing discomfort for someone else by your acts.
There are people in this world who when decide to do some act, forget about what discomfort they are creating for others...because for them...its like...I can do..so I will do...if you have any problem....get out......This doesn't mean that you need to follow this principle. Being bullish is not the right attitude..this may help someone achieve something but when you meet people with the same attitude..they are bogged down.....but the problem with the people of bullish attitude is that even they are down and out..they show fake attitude....they will not accept the reality....Its me..me and me...always me....come if you can come along as my follower...otherwise you are not required......its fake.....but unfortunately,
you will find people who loves to be follower of these bullish attitude people(bshtd)....because.. these bshtd types are warm hearted to their followers...they know that if they have to survive...they need backups.....even though they will pretend to be independent by their acts....
You should forget about these bshtd people....you don't need their favor...you are not dependent on them....never pay heed to what they do or say....its meaningless for you......then only you can do good to yourself...you need to work on what you can do and not to think about what the other person is doing....you know your defects and you accept them..that's a first step.There are many people in this world who never accept their defects & live compromised life....You should not be one of
them..of course they are in majority....but you can clean it all step by step....Remember....You have always improved yourself & this year is like no other...You will for sure do it.....Your pace may not be like others in all the cases but now others does not matter..You know yourself..Now..You should Love Yourself....Always appreciate yourself for small good things....Be your
Hero...Do good to you but always remember not at the cost of someone else....this is you...God bless you :)
does some act which discourages you.
The point here is that, in a way it is good for you that someone is making you aware about your defects. He/she may not want you to improve at all. These are the challenges for you. Remember one thing, even you accomplish something, he/she will never take in the right spirits...saying, good for you. So, you don't have to do things thinking that you are doing to show someone that you can also do this. Its you...Its your life....can't be dictated by someone else. You do, what you like but do not hurt anyone from your acts. There is no point in telling someone that..look..you are doing good but in a way you may be causing discomfort for someone else by your acts.
There are people in this world who when decide to do some act, forget about what discomfort they are creating for others...because for them...its like...I can do..so I will do...if you have any problem....get out......This doesn't mean that you need to follow this principle. Being bullish is not the right attitude..this may help someone achieve something but when you meet people with the same attitude..they are bogged down.....but the problem with the people of bullish attitude is that even they are down and out..they show fake attitude....they will not accept the reality....Its me..me and me...always me....come if you can come along as my follower...otherwise you are not required......its fake.....but unfortunately,
you will find people who loves to be follower of these bullish attitude people(bshtd)....because.. these bshtd types are warm hearted to their followers...they know that if they have to survive...they need backups.....even though they will pretend to be independent by their acts....
You should forget about these bshtd people....you don't need their favor...you are not dependent on them....never pay heed to what they do or say....its meaningless for you......then only you can do good to yourself...you need to work on what you can do and not to think about what the other person is doing....you know your defects and you accept them..that's a first step.There are many people in this world who never accept their defects & live compromised life....You should not be one of
them..of course they are in majority....but you can clean it all step by step....Remember....You have always improved yourself & this year is like no other...You will for sure do it.....Your pace may not be like others in all the cases but now others does not matter..You know yourself..Now..You should Love Yourself....Always appreciate yourself for small good things....Be your
Hero...Do good to you but always remember not at the cost of someone else....this is you...God bless you :)
posted by Binny at 10:43 PM
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