When Past dominates the Present..

why can't someone come out of their past? You have got only one life to live...whatever has to happen will happen here. Good, bad, success, failure....everything....in this life only.....Something which happened in the past should not affect the present or the future. Of course, there are learning’s that you take from your past but that doesn't mean you will apply the same to your present. You can't compare things based on past data. Everyone is unique and different. There may be things which two people do or say the same way but that does not mean they are made of the same stuff. If you try to map everything with your past then it will hurt you for a longer time. You want to say or do something but you can not do it because you will start justifying things according to your past. You can not enjoy your present. You think you have a problem. You think this is destiny.
Not correct. This is not true. These things come out because people do not want to accept things. "No.....I will not accept. why me? why me?...I am good...I never did anything wrong...I was 100% devoted...then why me??? why this happened to me.......I wanted something and i did not get that and now I am getting something but why should I take it......I have a problem......things may repeat itself....no..no......If i want something then I want what I want....not that I am getting........I will live in my past and If I try to live my present to the fullest then that would be crime because how can I be happy? I can''t be happy because nothing happened what i wanted...let me be sad......this is the way people should be...and i m right.....at least i will take some years to come over what happened
in the past....I don't deserve good things....I don't deserve good friends.....I should not say what i
want.....".................................................................................................................................

All negative........

It depends on an individual what sort of life he/she wants....there is nothing like I deserve this or I deserve that...no..no......life is the way you want to be........so one should try to be happy....try to express oneself as far as one can.........if you don't like something be straight forward...this is the mantra of leading a happy life.........and again the bottom line is .......you have 1 life to live............choice is yours..........traffic light counter doesn't wait.....it goes green...............or it goes red.........................so what I feel...there is no time frame for anything.......i will say this on that day....i will do this after sometime..........do it what you want...when you want.........love your life.................cheers :)